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Relationship Coaching for Real Connection

Guiding individuals, couples, and groups toward connection by design, not by default.

Science-Informed Relationship Coaching in Melbourne

Human Connection Code offers practical, science-informed relationship coaching designed to enhance communication, deepen emotional steadiness, rebuild trust, and strengthen relationships.

Our approach integrates relational intelligence, cultural awareness, communication psychology and neuroscience to support meaningful and enduring change.

Our Focus Areas

Individuals and couples seeking deeper self-awareness, stronger relationship skills, and more meaningful connection, including those preparing for long-term commitment, navigating cross-cultural dynamics, or managing conflict.

Specialised programmes include coaching for ADHD adults, support for couples navigating blended families, and dedicated programmes for women, including relationships with widowers and mid-life realisations.

Building Relational Intelligence with Methods That Work

We use proven methods from CBT, NLP, EFT, and the science of communication to shift unhelpful thinking patterns, steady emotional responses, ease conflict, and support clearer, more confident communication.

This approach strengthens emotional intelligence, enriches communication skills, and enhances long-term relational wellbeing.

Face-to-Face Coaching in Our Carlton Practice

Connection by design, not by default is the foundation of our work.

Every session is held in-person in our coaching space, where thoughtful conversation and genuine presence create an environment that supports deeper understanding, clearer communication, and more grounded connection.

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Explore our PROGRAMMES or book a COMPLIMENTARY CALL to gain a clearer understanding of our focus and approach.

You are also welcome to BOOK A SESSION to explore how we might work together and begin moving toward the change you are seeking.

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Jamilya Dib Founder of the Human Connection Code

Meet Jamilya Dib, the Founder of Human Connection Code

Bachelor in Psychology, Moscow State Pedagogical University, Russia

Master in International Relations, University of Melbourne, Australia

Master Relationship Coach, International Association of Professions Career College, USA

ADHD Coach, International Practitioners of Holistic Medicine, USA

NLP Practitioner, The Society of Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Australia

I founded Human Connection Code after years of watching how people’s lives shift when they feel understood, communicate with clarity, and reconnect with confidence.

I am not a counsellor or therapist, although I use counselling techniques when they genuinely support the process.

I work through coaching, broaching, consulting, and advising (CBCA), supporting individuals, couples, and groups through stress, anxiety, life transitions, and the everyday relationship challenges that shape how we relate to ourselves and to others.

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frameworks of Human Connection Code

Frameworks

At Human Connection Code, we use a simple four-part approach we call CBCA — Coaching, Broaching, Consulting, Advising.

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Programmes at Human Connection Code

Programmes

Our programmes bring relational intelligence to life through interactive, in-person workshops hosted in Melbourne.

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Resources

The Resources section brings together articles, reflections, and everyday tools designed to deepen relational intelligence.

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Tools

Evidence-based methods for calm, clarity, and change from NLP and CBT to EFT, EMDR, and Relational Intelligence (RQ).

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What Brings People to HCC Coaching

Real people. Real stories. Real reasons to seek support.

Relationship Challenges and Transitions

Relationships move through many seasons, and difficulties often surface during moments of change. Communication breakdowns, mismatched expectations, trust concerns, and pressures from work, family, or financial demands can create tension or distance, even in relationships that feel steady. These experiences often show people that support, clarity, and guided conversation could make a meaningful difference.

Our focus includes supporting couples and individuals through blended family dynamics, cross- cultural partnerships, commitment transitions, relationships shaped by loss, and the everyday challenges that make connection harder to sustain.

Communication Challenges

Communication can become difficult when conversations feel circular, misunderstandings build, or cultural and generational differences get in the way of feeling truly heard. Over time, these patterns can create tension or distance, prompting many people to seek support that helps conversations flow with more clarity and ease. These themes connect with our communication strategy and cross-cultural coaching programmes.

Emotional Overload

Persistent stress, anxiety, overwhelm, or emotional withdrawal can disrupt regulation, reduce resilience, and interfere with healthy communication. When these symptoms continue over time, individuals often seek structured support to stabilise emotional patterns and restore a sense of internal balance. These themes connect with our emotional intelligence and regulation work.

Confidence and Self-Expression

Reduced confidence, difficulty speaking up, uncertainty in setting boundaries, or challenges in expressing needs with clarity can create strain both internally and in relationships. When these patterns limit communication or personal agency, many people seek guided support to strengthen their voice and restore a sense of steadiness and self-trust. These themes connect with our personal coaching and Mid-Life Realisations programmes.

ADHD Life Management

ADHD can make daily life feel demanding, from staying organised and managing routines to maintaining focus, regulating emotions, and keeping up with communication. These ongoing challenges often create anxiety, overwhelm, and strain in relationships and everyday responsibilities. These themes connect with our Adult ADHD coaching.

A Feeling That Something Is Missing

Sometimes there is a quiet sense that something in life or connection is out of sync, even when the words are hard to find. This gentle awareness often signals a deeper need for clarity, alignment, or change. These themes connect with our broader relational intelligence work.

What people are saying about the HCC Programmes

I have known Jamilya Dib both professionally and personally, and I can say with confidence that she is an outstanding relationship coach. As a certified Relationship Master Coach and NLP Practitioner, supported by her degree in psychology, she brings together strong expertise, clear communication, and genuine human warmth.

Jamilya is trained in NLP, CBT, and EFT, and she helps people understand themselves more deeply, improve communication, and work through emotional and relational challenges with practical tools that are easy to apply. She connects easily with people from different backgrounds and creates a space where you feel both safe and understood.

As her client, I feel comfortable with her calm, supportive manner. She explains complex ideas in a simple, relatable way, and her ongoing professional growth shows in the quality of her sessions.
I would confidently recommend Jamilya to anyone seeking genuine, effective support to improve their relationships and overall wellbeing.

Irina Fast, General Practitioner

I highly recommend Jamilya to anyone seeking clarity, emotional balance, or stronger relationships.

As a qualified psychologist and relationship coach with degrees from abroad and Melbourne, she blends academic depth with genuine warmth and understanding. Her practice, Human Connection Code, reflects her belief that meaningful connection follows a learnable human code.

I’ve witnessed her commitment to helping people reconnect to themselves and to those they love in a way that feels authentic and sustainable. She creates a safe, open space where clients feel understood and supported. Her insights into communication and emotional patterns are practical, compassionate, and transformative. Whether navigating personal challenges or complex relationship dynamics, her guidance is grounded, clear, and effective.

Jamilya is deeply informed about cultural dynamics and has extensive experience working with people from diverse cultural backgrounds, both in Australia and overseas, which adds depth, sensitivity, and nuance to her work.

If you are seeking a professional who combines expertise with heart, Jamilya is an excellent choice.

Nesan Naidoo, Director & Principal Coach
Mind Modelling, Coaching and Corporate Training

I originally did my coaching session with Jamilya because it was part of my work training, but I was pleasantly surprised by how many benefits I gained from it. Her ability to listen and guide without judgment is truly amazing. She made the session feel safe, positive, and genuinely personalized. I left feeling clearer, more confident, and inspired to make small changes in my life and work towards meaningful growth.

Emaan Khan, University Student

A Mentor Who Truly Changed My Life

Working with Jamilya has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life. She supported me through some of my biggest career decisions and helped me truly focus on myself, what I value, what I want, and what actually matters for my future.

Her kindness, encouragement, and gentle honesty have guided me every step of the way. Whenever I felt lost, she helped me see clarity. Whenever I doubted myself, she reminded me of my strengths. And whenever I didn’t know what direction to take, she helped me find the best path forward.

I can confidently say that I would not be where I am today without her guidance. She doesn’t just mentor, you feel seen, supported, and empowered. I’m genuinely excited for everyone who will get to experience the same support that changed my life.

If you’re looking for someone who truly cares and brings out the best in you, I cannot recommend her enough.

Harshil Vora, Real Estate Property Manager, The Agency Melbourne

I recently had a career coaching session with Jamilya, and it helped me feel more confident at work. She was patient and took time to understand the challenges I face. The NLP technique she used helped me understand what was happening inside me and made it easier to work toward change.

I sometimes struggled to express myself, but Jamilya was kind and supportive, creating a space where I could talk at my own pace. The session was clear, reassuring, and made a positive difference for me.

I am happy to recommend Jamilya to anyone looking for career coaching.

Shilpa Khadka, Account Administrator

I visited Jamilya for my ongoing ADHD and occasional anxiety. I had a few sessions with her and the last one being about four months ago. As always, she made me feel safe, calm, and understood. She helped me look at situations differently and taught me ways to change my thinking patterns when I start to feel overwhelmed. The session was reassuring and practical, and I left feeling more in control and supported! I highly recommend Jamilya! She is amazing!

David Sculli, Hairdresser

I have had 12 sessions on weekly basis with Jamilya. Coaching sessions on relationships were highly beneficial for me. I was seeking to improve my interpersonal dynamics. The sessions were conducted with a skilled approach, and those sessions led to meaningful and lasting improvements in personal relationships. I have been following her recommendations regularly. After the sessions I felt relieved and empowered. I would highly recommend Jamilya as a coach. She is awesome!

Maya Ovezova, Personal Assistant

I recently attended the session and found the overall experience very positive. Jamilya created such a supportive environment and helped me reflect on a few important areas in my life and work. Even though everyone’s journey is different, I genuinely found the process helpful and insightful. Thank you for the guidance and professionalism!

Owen Lin, Accountant